How to make a decision

Sep 20, 2026

Am I buying a house in Costa Rica?

Maybe.

Right now, I’m gathering information and daydreaming about the possibilities. I’m following the signs, remaining open to guidance, and doing my best to stay unattached to the outcome.

This is what intuition is all about.

Dream. Desire. Imagine what might be possible. Then stay open enough to listen.

There is a beautiful balance between intuition, and intellect. Our intellect helps us gather the facts, ask the questions, and make wise choices. But sometimes we use our thinking mind to talk ourselves out of what we already know.

What does it mean to misuse our intellect?

It means when we know what’s best for us and our heart is calling… but we don’t follow it. It's when we cling to old habits or stories or play it safe, even though something deeper is calling us to evolve.

Sound familiar?

The Dance Between Ego and Intuition

We all have two voices inside:

  • One that says “you’ve got this, stay safe, stick with what you know…”

  • And another—gentle, wise, and often quiet—that whispers, “there’s a new way.”

That quiet one? That’s your intuition. It’s the voice of your inner guide, your wise woman, your soul. She is the one that makes wise decisions without the drama of worry or regret.  The key?

Pause. Breathe. Inquire. Receive.

What is your intuition telling you today?
Is there a thought, habit, or decision that’s ready to shift?